Ceremonies, care and keepsakes that inspire the preciousness of life through wakeful appreciation of death
What kind of funeral best suits the needs of your particular situation? Every funeral should be as unique as every life. There are many choices and possibilities. Learn what options are available and how a Home Funeral may work for you and your loved ones. Guidance or full coordination available.
Writing your own legacy letters to your loved ones is appropriate, beautiful and tender work at any point during your life! Store your letters and gifts in a safety deposit box on your own or ask about help with storage and a special time release plan. Individual guidance or group workshop.
Assistance with bedside care, sitting vigil or open gentle conversation. Assistance with errands or outings. Available for temporary respite, extended periods and through post-mortem care and guidance.
Pets and animals are amazing teachers and companions. Burial ceremonies for beloved pets can be very healing for everyone. They are especially important for children whose first experience of a close death is often with a pet. Guidance or full coordination.
Ever wondered who will come to your funeral? Sometimes, it feels right to have a celebration of your life while you're still alive! Though tears will definitely flow, these gathering are intended to be uplifting and healing. Guidance or full coordination.
Talking about death should feel natural- yet, often it feels more like taboo. Death Salons are open conversations or a focused topic about mortality and the preciousness of life. Participants leave feeling more alive! Available for businesses, families, or gatherings. Location of your choice.
With a 3.5 foot high tightwire and a 25' round medieval labyrinth, contemplate the many ways of walking through life and death. Practice balance, breathing, patience and kindness toward your self. Watch for upcoming workshops.
Hand poured 100% pure beeswax candles. Tea lights and votives available only in natural color. Hand rolled candles come in a great variety of colors. Hand made herbal smudge sticks featuring sage, lavender and calendula. Essential oil mists for cleansing, uplifting and transitioning.
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Planning in advance of your death can save your loved ones much confusion at a time when emotions are heavy and unclear. Assistance with everything from organizing your records to making arrangements for your body. The process is challenging, intriguing and very healing. It can bring great peace of mind and heart.
Important birthdays (double digits, teens, or any age!)
Opening July 2018
Alternative Funeral Design offered in May 2018
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An advocate for those whose voices are unheard, weak or forgotten, Anne-Marie believes Community Deathcare and open conversation about life and death is crucial for the health of individuals and the planet. With gentle timing, and an uplifted manner, she believes conversation about death makes our own lives and the lives of those around us more precious.
A childhood of magical play in faery forests, a barn full of animals, and teenage years in the circus formed an independent and reflective spirit. At the age of 19 Anne-Marie gave birth to her first child which only deepened her inner love and patience for herself and her wee one. Today, Anne-Marie has three children ages 20, 16 and 2 and has held fast to her circus days by teaching tight wire as a form of body/mind awareness practice.
After a decade of professional event coordination for weddings, fashion shows, concerts, festivals and conferences, Anne-Marie halted everything to work with the elderly. Propelled by her work with the 13 Indigenous Grandmothers and her love of an elderly homeless man, she became a Hospice volunteer in 2013. She continued her path of care as a licensed nurse assistant from 2013-2016 and worked with the elderly in residential care and as a private duty nurse. She was the only full time over-night "nurse" and cared for a home of 12 elderly residents. During this time she also studied herbal healing and received a certificate from Mandala Botanicals' 9 month training in Community Herbalism.
When working as the Director of Meals on Wheels in Montpelier her understanding of how often the elderly struggle living on their own with loneliness, physical ailments, embarrassment and confusion only deepened her desire to engage the able bodied in assisting the elderly. She believes that the more conversations about death and dying that spring forth in communities, the more empathy will be generated, and the better the chance the elderly, sick and dying will have companionship and a feeling of value at the end of life; this is the core of Community Deathcare.
Anne-Marie's work with people is not just generational, as she is the Head Teacher at Karmê Chöling's Family Camp in Barnet Vermont and teaches Teen Retreats year round. The newest program that she offers is called Line and Labyrinth: Walking Through Life and Death. This program has been adapted to fit the interests of teenagers but will be offered to adults as well.
Anne-Marie is a master level Reiki practitioner, meditation instructor, has training in Shambhala Buddhist teachings and completed Level I Dying With Confidence training in Phowa with Anyen Rinpoche. She currently leads Death Cafés in Craftsbury and Hardwick Vermont and is a board member of Green Burial Vermont.
A Death Midwife or Doula is an individual who assists those in end of life considerations, through the dying process and possibly with post-mortem care as well. Anne-Marie is a graduate of the BEyond Yonder Virtual School of Death Midwifery (Community Deathcare). This four month course of intensive death care training (6 days per week with an average of 20 hours of work per week) covered pre-death needs to post mortem care and disposition. She is qualified to guide families in home funerals and encourages individuals to consider this as a possibility. Understanding the sudden fog that gathers when a loved one dies, Anne-Marie hopes to offer options and assistance with proceedings in a time of great pain and confusion. She currently is available to her community for consultations.
*Trainings for Death Midwives and Death Doulas (all the same thing) vary greatly. Be aware that some trainings are more thorough than others. Research the school your Death Midwife and/or Death Doula is certified from and always check credenti
Having completed a four month training in Fundamentals of Celebrancy, Anne-Marie will continue on to receive her certification as a Life Cycle Celebrant in funerals and memorials and will graduate from the Celebrant Institute and Foundation in April 2018.
*Trainings to become a Certified Celebrant vary greatly. Be aware that some schools have better reputations and more thorough training than others.